Marc Mawhinney is a lifelong entrepreneur who helps coaches get more clients (without paid advertising)! He achieves this with his coaching programs, his podcast Natural Born Coaches, his Facebook group The Coaching Jungle, and his Secret Coach Club. Heโs been a speaker at events like Social Media Marketing World, frequently makes media appearances and contributes for Entrepreneur.com. You can learn more about Marc at www.NaturalBornCoaches.com!
Knowledge Nuggets and Take-Aways
- A job is something you do, a business is something you nurture and grow
- 80% of coaches are โWantrapreneursโ
- Donโt discount yourself, value the knowledge in your noggin
- Do not be a people pleaser at all times, donโt be afraid to break some eggs to make omelets
- Have โblack boxโ thinking โ learn and get better!
- Coaches need to set boundaries and understand and lean into your worth
- In business if you cannot manage your calendar and show up for your clients and prospects, you wonโt be in business very long
- Many coaches come from different fields and discount their experience in their prior field to relay that into coaching
- If you donโt get โnicked upโ in life then you played it too safe
- Success is getting up in morning and going to bed at night doing what you wanted in between (Bob Dylan)
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L. Scott Ferguson: Time To Shine Today Podcast Varsity Squad This is Scott Ferguson and I am super stoked to bring you my good friend from north of the border Marc Mawhinney Marc is somebody that I immensely respect.
Itโs kind of a bucket list interview for me here and We had a fun conversation. Itโs about 30 minutes long If youโre a coach consultant realtor business owner anybody really to look to level up your business, please Listen to this, break out your notebooks, because Marc leaves some serious knowledge nuggets and breadcrumbs behind for you to take to really level up your life, your business, your family, and whatnot.
So, again, sit back, relax, break out your notebooks, share it with somebody, if you like what you hear, or at least hit like and subscribe, because it really helps my sponsors and affiliates. So, without further ado, hereโs my really good friend, Marc Mawhinney letโs level up.
Time to shine today. Podcast Varsity Squad. This is Scott Ferguson, and I have a bucket list interview right now. Something that I immensely respect in the coaching world. And just as an absolute [00:01:00] stellar human being Marc Mawhinney. He is a lifelong entrepreneur, helps coaches get more clients. Without a lot of paid, if any paid advertising, he achieves this with his coaching programs, his podcast, natural born coaches, which by the way, Iโm a top 2 percent podcast.
Iโm interviewing a top 1 percent podcast. So again, this is kind of bucket list moment for me. Iโve been wanting to get Marc on for a long time. You guys have to check out his Facebook group, the coaching jungle, and his secret coach club. Heโs been a speaker at events like social media, marketing world frequently makes media appearances and contributes for entrepreneur.
com. Thatโs baller. You can learn more about market. naturalborncoaches. com. But donโt go there now because heโs going to drop some serious knowledge nuggets, especially if youโre out there, if you are a coach, which I know a lot of you guys listening, thank you so much. Marc going to drop some awesome, awesome info and knowledge nuggets.
And Marc, thank you so much for coming out. Please introduce yourself to the Time to Shine Today podcast, Varsity Squad. But first, whatโs your favorite color and
Marc Mawhinney: why? Itโs blue, which I see because it might be yours too [00:02:00] from, from the background. Iโm a long suffering fan of the Toronto Maple Leafs being Canadian.
And Iโm a huge Toronto Blue Jays fan. Iโm really a baseball guy. Everyoneโs Joe Carter, baby. Yeah. 1993. One of my favorite moments. Yeah. Poor Mitch Williams. Yeah, thatโs right. So Iโm a big Blue Jays, Maple Leafs fan and stuff like that, and Iโm also yeah, not to get political, conservative guy in our party here in Canada.
Weโre opposite of you guys in the U. S. Our conservative party, blue is their color, our liberals are red, and of course, in the states, itโs flipped, where the Democrats are blue and the Republicans are blue. I did not know that. I would be, Iโm blue in Canada. I guess Iโd be red if I were living in the States.
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L. Scott Ferguson: moment for me right there. Thatโs awesome. So Marc, thatโs your, I listen to your podcast. I really donโt ever miss an episode. And also I know what you do to help coaches level up, but is there, and I know like years ago, this is probably 10 or 11 years ago, we were conversing on Facebook regarding real estate and whatnot, right?
But what, whatโs your [00:03:00] roots brother to get to the point now where coaches turned to you really to level them up.
Marc Mawhinney: Yeah, so I mean, the CliffsNotes version, Iโve been in the coaching world since 2014. So Iโm coming up to 10 years in March of 24 and my background, yeah, is in real estate. So I spent right out of university in a decade doing the whole thing, selling real estate being a manager, broker, opening my own company.
Everything was hockey stick growth, use a Canadian analogy until it wasnโt everything collapsed, I guess, at , almost 15 years ago. And thatโs how I got into coaching was I was helped back to my feet by a few coaches and mentors and because I was in a bad spot as anyone going through a business closure.
Itโs not the most fun thing to do. And, yeah, Iโm very grateful. I wouldnโt be talking with you here today had I not gone through that and Iโm very grateful that I connected with coaches got to see a front guy have a front row seat to what coaching could do. And yeah, weโre decade of in the coaching world.
Iโm loving it.
L. Scott Ferguson: Youโre killing it. And whatโs whatโs great is like when youโre real [00:04:00] estate, , being being a real estate broker since 1999, right? And I still practice, Iโm blessed to have a great team here. But like, when youโre in a real estate broker, youโre not only a broker, but youโre like a marriage counselor.
Youโre a babysitter for their kids, , while theyโre looking at a house, you babysit, entertain their kids. So itโs like parlayed perfectly into coaching, right?
Marc Mawhinney: Yeah. I find that thereโs a lot of similarities when Iโm. Coaching coaches versus coaching. My agents was in real estate and I will sometimes catch myself saying agents instead of coaches or whatever, but at the end of the day, coaches are really entrepreneurs like real estate agents, I will say, and you have to have boundaries.
You have to respect your time. You have to be able to prequalify people. You have to justify your worth, negotiate all these other things. So surprisingly, thereโs a lot of crossover between real estate and coaching. Absolutely.
L. Scott Ferguson: So what then, because you come across thousands of coaches within your business, but what, if you had to break it down, Marc, Iโve always wanted to ask you this.
[00:05:00] What do you feel makes a great coach?
Marc Mawhinney: Well, going back to what I just mentioned, itโs youโre an entrepreneur and recognizing that youโre an entrepreneur, which a lot of coaches struggle with. They think, okay, well, Iโll learn the art of coaching, get certified, slap up a website, and then bang, people rush through.
And Iโve always said that, unfortunately, if I had to put my money on. Wanted to coach is succeeding. Would it be the brilliant marketer that was an average coach or the brilliant coach is a meh marketer? Well, itโs going to go with the marketer the first, because theyโre going to actually get people through the door to coach and you can be the best coach in the world, but if you donโt have clients to show what you can do, theyโre not going to be in business long.
So. Thatโs something I work towards every day because so many coaches come from backgrounds where theyโve never sold before, never run a business. Maybe they come from HR, they were a teacher, they were, , something where they didnโt have to sell their I say sell themselves. I donโt mean prostitution, but , real estate, what itโs like.
[00:06:00] If you, if you donโt sell, you donโt eat. And Iโm grateful that I had a decade of being. In that kind of commission style. Thank you for saying that. The brokerage. Yeah, because itโs given a lot of skills that have helped now.
L. Scott Ferguson: Coaching like real estate, and you can attest this. We woke up every day unemployed.
We had to find someone to interview us to sell them a house, to rent them a house, to sell their house, right? And the coaches are the same way. And a lot of people got into the real estate business. Iโm licensed, right? Because itโs such an easy entry into coaching and real estate. You pass the test.
Coaching, you donโt even have to really pass the test, right? But then they have. They have to hunt and they donโt know how to do that. And thatโs why a lot of the attrition rate is probably pretty low. And Iโve heard you say that a couple of times on your show.
Marc Mawhinney: well, hereโs something you wouldnโt think of, but Iโve seen it firsthand this week is Iโve had a lot of calls booked this week with cause Iโm doing, Iโm doing a new training and a lot of people watch itโs a mini automated training.
So a lot of people book the call. Cause that was a call to action. At the end of it, I had two no shows [00:07:00] this week with it, which happens. I mean, thatโs like. These are people when I check, cause Iโll always check them out before the call and stuff. You wouldnโt expect it. One of them was in business for decades and I was looking at his background, his LinkedIn, everything else.
And he was a no show yesterday, which is fine. , itโs kind of frustrating, but I feel like if you canโt manage your calendar and show up for calls that you booked with me or with anyone. Then youโre not going to be in business very long and it was the same thing with real estate iโm shocked I didnโt get more speeding tickets because I was racing all over godโs green earth to get to Showings one end of town and driving an hour the other way right there because I was always paranoid Oh my god, if I donโt get there they buy a house from someone else or they a Professionalism that was instilled and that carried over with coaching.
I would say now, I donโt know if the 80 20 rule is applicable, but maybe even close at 80 percent of coaches are wantrepreneurs or just kind of playing around with it, itโs a hobby type thing. And then you have 20 that take it serious, that show up when theyโre [00:08:00] supposed to do what theyโre supposed to do.
Theyโre the ones that are going to succeed. There are a lot of them that are just playing at it, unfortunately. Itโs
L. Scott Ferguson: like, just like in real estate brokers and stuff, theyโre, theyโre, theyโre one offs and bottom feeders, we like to call them and, and whatnot. So do you coach, do you coach coaches one on one or are you more group, Marc?
Marc Mawhinney: Iโve done both and they have their advantages, , itโs I enjoy one on one, got some great clients. One on one now is itโs not a quantity number for me. Continually increase my fees so much that, , theyโre high enough that Iโm working with a handful of serious ones. And then Iโve got the group coaching, which is interesting because itโs a different type of energy, right?
When youโve got four or five, six people on a call and theyโre learning from each other and stuff, thereโs insights that come from that as well. So, yeah, I do both. Iโve got a membership subscription type office. I do joint ventures with partners. I do a number of things there, but itโs all in the coaching world.
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L. Scott Ferguson: it. A lot of the, because youโve earned the right to charge your fees for your one [00:09:00] on ones, these people are coming in, they do have success behind them. If they probably could not afford you, what do you find maybe in the discovery period with them is their biggest blind spot.
Marc Mawhinney: I find a lot of people discount themselves.
They donโt, they, thereโs an imposter syndrome. So for example, they may have been in business for 20, 30 years in another field, but they assume that theyโre coming into coaching as a brand new rookie or whatever, and theyโre not giving value to the knowledge thatโs in their noggin. Right. And I try to tell them, Hey, look, youโve got 30 years in your head there, like thatโs, youโre not just rolling out of bed this morning and a babe in the woods with nothing to offer and thereโs something to be said for that.
So I always stress the coaches that you want to bring the experiences and the talents and skills that you build up up to this point. Into your coaching world now. And one of my coaches who was chatting with me, she was, sheโs looking at doing a group program of mine has been a doctor for a couple of decades [00:10:00] and and she was asking a similar question, well, , am I the right person for this?
And sheโs looking at doing relationship type coaching. Iโm like, youโre the perfect person to be doing for it because youโve had to do that, not as a coach, but you really have done a lot of those same things for years. Anyways, so donโt discount yourself. Blow your own horn, so to speak, no one else will blow it for you, , you canโt die when it comes to that
L. Scott Ferguson: either.
And I love that you said that. I mean, cause it like youโre, youโre a lot of people will tell, but they donโt act like theyโll tell you how much theyโre doing. But I think that the more you, if you tell and you take action, that more people will tell your story for you. , youโve got to get out there and rock that.
So when youโre. Talking to coaches because Maybe weโre still in the discovery period here Marc with when youโre starting to see if Youโre the right horse for the course for them, right? Is there any good question that you wish they would ask you but never do?
Marc Mawhinney: Whatโs your paypal Marc?
How can I pay you? [00:11:00]
L. Scott Ferguson: Dude, that is the best answer because itโs a canned question. I ask coaches all the time And I wanted to get yours. What, how do I pay you? Right. That is freaking awesome. Well,
Marc Mawhinney: I say that kind of, kind of tongue in cheek, but I think thereโs some truth to it that you donโt see it now because itโs a secret coach club poster behind me now.
But for a long time, I had a picture of money. Back there. Mm-Hmm. . And it was actually your american hundred dollar bills, not our Canadian. โcause we have funny money thatโs all different colors. , we have Toonies and loonies and Yeah. Mm-Hmm. . Itโs not exactly cool looking. America had the be back there, I remember.
Yeah. Yeah. It was all, it was a Benjaminโs. And I did have. As someone say to me, Oh, gee, do you want to have that on there, Marc? Cause , you donโt want to look greedy and all this other stuff. And I had it there and kept it there for a long time for a reason is that I want to stress the coaches that itโs okay to admit that you like money and you want to be paid.
Cause thereโs so many people in the coaching world. Youโve seen them all, Scott, that are just full of it. They try to pretend that they donโt care about money. I donโt know. No, I donโt care. Whatever. , I want to [00:12:00] impact , a billion people in the world, but I could care less about money or whatever.
And often itโs the people who say they donโt care about money that are the wolves in sheepโs clothing. So Iโm very open with it. Hey, yes, Iโm in business. I like. Thatโd be paid. I like to make a profit and I canโt stay in business if not. And I try to get that over to my clients as well. The coaches Iโm working with that they should be comfortable with it too, and not feel weird because how many coaches do ?
Do amazing on discovery calls for the 90 percent of the call. Theyโre awesome or whatever. But then when it transitions into making the offer, telling how they can work together, it gets all weird and thereโs a change there or whatever, and then they lose. The client with it and and I donโt want them to feel like that So I think we should be very open and admit that yeah, weโre a business.
We want to make money,
L. Scott Ferguson: right? And I and I love that and I love that a lot of like what are you a follower of like Chandler and Lipmanโs?
Marc Mawhinney: Bit Steve Chandler. Yeah. Iโve had Steve. Steve, well, Iโve had both on my podcast actually, and Iโve joint ventured with Steve Chandler. Yeah. Iโve got the prosperous coach back there in, in my bookshelf [00:13:00] too.
Right.
L. Scott Ferguson: And absolutely. And I, youโre, it just, it feels like Iโm talking to Steve again or even Rich Right. With, with how youโre talking about Itโs okay. Like Mike. โcause money obviously gives you choices, , in life and stuff like that, and you canโt make those choices, like you said, without making money.
And, but, and, and itโs okay. Thatโs โcause a lot of people that Iโve seen. I was mentored by some really awesome people up in the Michigan area regarding money because I grew up black mentality dad worked on the line at General Motors and the Motor City, , love my dadโs my best friend, but there was never that being okay with money.
Itโs like money was evil and kind of this and like I got pulled out of that by some awesome Jewish people, and thatโs not a stereotype but they just happen to be Jewish and they really taught me the value of it itโs okay. I love that Marc. I love it, man. So letโs Have you seen the movie back to the future?
Oh, yeah. I love them. All right Yeah, letโs get that delorean with marty mcfly. Letโs go back to the double deuce the 22 year old Marc What kind of [00:14:00] knowledge nuggets might you drop on him? Not so much to change anything Marc because your journey is pretty awesome. You have an awesome child Youโre very successful, but maybe to shorten the learning curve and maybe blast through just a little bit quicker
Marc Mawhinney: Yes, thatโs pretty close to when I got started in real estate because I was 21, getting started in real estate So early 20s Marc, I think the big thing I would tell him is back then.
I was a real people pleaser being in real estate, , you want to get along with other agents that youโre doing deals with, of course, the clients and the inspectors, appraisers, water testers, everything. And I remember that an agent in my office once in my first few years of business, Iโd done quite a few deals.
I got, I worked hard and got my business rolling quite quickly. And he said, Marc, he said, Iโve never heard a bad thing about you, which I took as a compliment at the time. Looking back now, playing Monday morning quarterback, I donโt view it as a positive thing. You might be saying, well, gee, itโs a good thing, isnโt it?
Right. Doing that many deals, that many transactions and stuff, [00:15:00] I should have some people pissed off at me. I should have other agents, oh, heโs a real dink to negotiate with. And, , he had my client ended up paying my buyer 5, 000 more because he was so hard headed with it, , and stuff like that.
Itโs not good toโฆ Be too much of a people pleaser in real estate, or Iโd even say with coaching now. So thatโs what I would probably tell Marc is donโt be afraid to break a few more eggs to make omelets back then. And luckily over the years I changed my thinking with it. And now I have a lot of people who donโt like me.
So thatโs good.
L. Scott Ferguson: I get that. Iโm boisterous. Iโm not.
Marc Mawhinney: Well, your energy. Iโm a little bit more laid back. Iโm the one with Red Bull here, but Iโm like, man, I maybe I need something different. Yeah, I love your energy and stuff, but itโs not really my style or Iโm not like a Brendon Burchard. Brendon Burchard is like a hyena on Red Bull bouncing around.
If I showed up like that, peopleโd say, what the heck, Marc?
L. Scott Ferguson: Right? Yeah, youโre the authentic, right? I mean, Iโm the, . Iโm the six one, 240 pound guy that will [00:16:00] hug you. Like Iโm from the Midwest, , youโre from Canada. Itโs what we do. And Iโm called the, my nickname when I speak is the boomer. Like Iโm, Iโm loud.
Right. And itโs, itโs fine with me because I own that. So Marc, how do you want your dash? Remember that little line in between your incarnation date and your expiration date, your life date and death date. Hope itโs way down the road, brother. But how does Marc want his dash remembered?
Marc Mawhinney: Oh, how do I want to be remembered?
I donโt think Iโll have this on my tombstone, but itโs something that I think would be the story with my, with my life, with, with business, everything else, especially over the last 15, 20 years is I havenโt given up, , and I try to impart that on my son. He just turned 15 recently and that Itโs cliche, but it doesnโt matter how many times you get knocked down as long as you get up, , fall seven times, get up eight, all that stuff.
And yeah, I just didnโt give up because so many people that they go through a business closure, they lose a job, they declare bankruptcy, they get a divorce or whatever. And then thatโs it, , and they think [00:17:00] that itโs final. And I, Iโm actually reading a good book at the moment around this whole topic.
Itโs called. Black box thinking. So as in black boxes in airplanes, Matthew Syed wrote it. And that whole book is around learning from your failures, not viewing them necessarily as a failure. So if you look at the aviation industry, the reason that itโs so safe and that thereโs such a minuscule percentage of accidents is that the aviation industry got really good when thereโs a plane crash, retrieving the black box, see what happened, what pilot errors was something to do with the mechanics, whatever, letโs fix it.
So it doesnโt happen again. And then the book compares it to the medical industry, which has not a great record when it comes to misdiagnosis, people dying in surgeries, stuff like that, because doctors are not bashing doctors. I think doctors, nurses, stuff are great, but theyโre human, and theyโre afraid to admit error, and theyโre afraid to learn from their mistakes.
The nurse had noticed a doctor thatโs, been at it for 40 years and has this prestigious stuff. They see him making a mistake. Theyโre not going toโฆ Call him out on it [00:18:00] necessarily. Cause I donโt know. Heโs the, , the master here. Iโm just the nurse and thatโs the wrong way of thinking. So, yeah, thatโs a long answer, but I think thatโs what Iโd say.
He didnโt give up. He kept going. Robin Sharma says, KMF keep moving forward. They keep moving forward.
L. Scott Ferguson: Love it. Like, , youโre gonna slide across home plate bumped and bruised, but knowing that you served a lot of people, man Thatโs awesome
Marc Mawhinney: So thereโs a lot of people that go through life and they donโt get if you donโt get nicked up It means that you just didnโt try to do it Yeah, you just that you played it way too safe.
Are you gonna be happier odds? Are you gonna have a lot of regrets by the time youโre ready to check out?
L. Scott Ferguson: Yeah very very true, so What do you think people then misunderstand the most about
Marc Mawhinney: Marc? Misunderstand? Hopefully not a whole lot. I try to be plain spoken. Pretty transparent. No fluff and no BS.
Thatโs what I hate about the coaching industry is that itโs so much of itโs boilerplate. Youโve got one hand, , a million boss bitch babes that are [00:19:00] saying all the same thing inside, , I think thereโs a factory cloning them out, not to excuse the guys, because then you get the douchepreneurs, , the bro marketers with the private jet pitchers and the fancy cars and, , kind of the Ferrari in the garage or Lamborghini.
And with the bookcase and the garage Tai Lopez types so I just see all that stuff. And itโs just like, oh man, Iโm, I was tired of it 10 years ago when I got into this. Now weโre into 2023, 2024. And itโs just, I, I hate that type stuff. And so yeah, I, I try to do things differently and be more.
Myself. I know itโs a cliche to say authentic, just put it out there. Yeah. Someone doesnโt resonate with you. Thatโs fine. Iโm not everyoneโs cup of tea. Iโve been doing daily emails now for years and I try to write like I talk in normal life, , and Iโve had subscribers sometimes reply to the email I send out.
One in particular was a little more woo woo. And she said, Marc, I love your emails. , enjoy reading them every day, but you said crap in your email [00:20:00] yesterday. And that doesnโt vibrate with my whatever energy plane, blah, blah, blah. Can you clean it up or whatever? And I just say, Hey, look, , if you want to unsubscribe, no harm, no dealings, but yeah, Iโm just, Iโm not changing.
Yeah. Thereโs not boring emails from coaches, from entrepreneurs. I like to keep it interesting. Yeah. I love
L. Scott Ferguson: it. Cause youโre so like, youโve grown something that youโre passionate about to the point where if you go to chat GPT and you say. Write me a post in the tone of Marc Mawhinney from Natural Born Coaches, you should try it sometime, dude.
Itโs actually really cool.
Marc Mawhinney: How is it with Canadian accents? Because when I go to like, yeah, I go to Rev. com and Iโll put something because I do stuff with transcripts, and then Iโm spending more time cleaning it up because, itโs really bad for, , I have secret coach clubs, my membership site, and itโll put secret coach club on what is, is a Canadian accent that bad, but yeah, Iโll have to try that with chat GPT.
Yeah.
L. Scott Ferguson: Itโs a lot of five. I [00:21:00] live on AI now and Iโm really bought into that. Love it. So then what is. Marc definition of a life well lived.
Marc Mawhinney: Well, this, this could be a definition of success as well. Cause Iโll ask people a lot of times, like, how do you define success? And the best answer Iโve ever read was from Bob Dylan.
And he basically said that success is. Itโs getting up in the morning, going to bed at night and doing what you wanted to in between which I thought was a great definition. That could be a life well lived as well. , youโre not worrying about what other people think, doing it to impress other people or because of expectations, life is just so short.
And Iโve really changed you and I were chatting beforehand. I turned 45, the summer pass that just passed. And I like to say itโs middle age. If Iโm looking at actual stats and numbers of how North American males, how long they live, itโs actually over there. Iโm more there. Itโs not, itโs not exactly a middle age.
Iโd love to live till 90. But so [00:22:00] Iโve thought a lot about time. Cause like my father passed away this past March too. So death of a parent, you start thinking a lot of that, right? Mortality, youโre in your twenties. You think youโre invincible, youโre gonna live forever. Thirties may cross your mind a little bit more.
Youโre in your forties and fifties, you start to value time a lot more as well. So, yeah, that Iโd take Bob Dylanโs success definition and apply it to a life well lived as well. Yeah,
L. Scott Ferguson: man. And like you, I, , I do what I love to do in the service of people that love what I do. What Iโm saying?
I love what I do. And people notice that. And I like to say I live a life of options and not obligations. That is my definition of success. Period. Well, youโre
Marc Mawhinney: in Florida. Everyoneโs happy in Florida. So you canโt not live a good life.
L. Scott Ferguson: Time to shine today. Podcasts, varsity squad. We are back in Marc. You and I are going to meet up eventually when you get down here during the cold months and weโll talk about some of these [00:23:00] questions, , 10, 15, 20 minutes, maybe over a brain grenade or two, right? But weโre gonna today you got five seconds to answer them with no explanations, none at all.
And they can all be done that way. Youโre ready to level up. Cool. Letโs do it. All right, Marc. What is the best leveling up advice youโve ever received? Keep moving forward. Love it. Share one of your personal habits that contributes to your success. Journaling. Excellent. And other than your website, are there any other website is kind of a go-to website for you to level up?
Marc Mawhinney: I know we said five seconds. Go to Ben Settleโs website. Oh yeah, Ben. Awesome. Awesome. Yeah, there we go. Love it. Yeah, shout out for Ben. Ben Settle.
L. Scott Ferguson: Bono, whatโs it called? Bonet? What the hell is it? Lombono? Whereโs Silent Lover? Anyway, so you see me walking down the street or maybe at an event, youโre like, man, Fergie looks like heโs in his doldrums a little bit.
What book might you hand me to level
Marc Mawhinney: me up?[00:24:00]
Oh man, so many good ones. A Thick Faced Blackheart by Chin Ning Chiu. Yes, sir.
L. Scott Ferguson: Your most commonly used emoji when you text?
Marc Mawhinney: Oh, Iโm not an emoji guy, but Iโm a thumbs up. Love it. Nicknames growing up? Marco was one. Yeah.
L. Scott Ferguson: Love it. Chess checkers or Monopoly?
Marc Mawhinney: Chess. Oh, wow. Headline for your life? Keep moving forward.
Love it. The theme of today.
L. Scott Ferguson: Secret hidden talent or superpower that you have that nobody knows about until now?
Marc Mawhinney: Oh I know some magic and card tricks.
L. Scott Ferguson: Very cool. Very cool. Any superstitions?
Marc Mawhinney: No, Iโm not a superstitious guy.
L. Scott Ferguson: Go to ice cream flavor?
Marc Mawhinney: Birthday cake. Ah, good
L. Scott Ferguson: stuff. Thereโs a sandwich called the Marco.
Build that sandwich for me. Whatโs on it?
Marc Mawhinney: Well, thereโs extra crispy bacon,
L. Scott Ferguson: which [00:25:00] I love. Man candy.
Marc Mawhinney: Gotta have it. Yeah, itโs like 80 percent bacon. Itโs a BLT, weโll say, but itโs got like 80 percent bacon. And itโs as dark as your shirt. Love it.
L. Scott Ferguson: Love it. Just bacon?
Marc Mawhinney: A little bit of lettuce and tomato just so it doesnโt look weird. But yeah, itโs primarily itโs a bacon sandwich.
L. Scott Ferguson: Love it, man. So, favorite charity and or organization you like to give your time
Marc Mawhinney: or money to? Yeah, well, the Canadian Cancer Society. Both my parents before my father passed away from something else.
But both my parents beat cancer. So thatโs one that hits close to home. Love it, man.
L. Scott Ferguson: And last question, we can elaborate on this one a little bit. Whatโs the best decade of music? 60s, 70s, 80s, or 90s?
Marc Mawhinney: They all have their pluses other than the most recent decades, Iโll say. So I will say Iโm an oldies guy.
I really like like Elvis Buddy Holly, Beach Boys, all that stuff. The Beatles, early stuff before they got all heavy. So that would put, , like 60s, you could say [00:26:00] not a 70s guy. Cause Iโm not a, I wouldnโt have been going to, well, Woodstock was late sixties, but , I wouldnโt have been in the whole 70s scene.
Eighties is cheesy, but I was born in the 78. So that was kind of like, Rock 86, that album we built, built the city , and all that other stuff, the nineties. I was in high school and university, so I like a lot of the nineties stuff too. So Iโd have to say oldies, like the sixties, but I saw a spot for the nineties just because thatโs when I was going from a child to an adult, I guess, was that transition there.
L. Scott Ferguson: No, I appreciate that. I mean, I love all the decades except for the recent stuff. Cause thereโs a recent stuff using hooks from all
Marc Mawhinney: the decades. Like, sorry, Taylor Swift. I donโt get the whole thing or whatever. Like, yeah. Okay. Itโs letโs write a song about breakups and, , all auto auto tune. All this other stuff.
K pop. I donโt, I hate new music. Iโm not into. Yeah. Yeah, I just, itโs not my thing at all. So I, I listened to older stuff, but my phone [00:27:00] has a healthy dose from each decade. Nice. Up until probably the 2000s. And then thatโs when it starts after that going down. I donโt have, I have very little after
L. Scott Ferguson: 2010 in there.
Yeah. Iโm the same way you listen to, , I respect Pitbull because I got to meet him before the, the, the rapper guy. And heโs got a hell of a story, but like, like three of his songs use hooks from like ahas take on me. If you listen to one of his songs, thatโs the hook, , theyโre using the hook from stuff from the eighties.
Cause so much happened from the, , the, the invasions from Australia with men at work and you two over in Ireland. To Big Hair Donโt Care, Glam Rock. It was just, Iโm an 80s guy if I look at it, but the 60s are awesome. Iโm a huge Frankie Valli fan. Huge. I got to meet
Marc Mawhinney: him like six or seven times.
Oh wow, thatโs awesome. Yeah, I love Frankie Valli stuff. Yeah, Pitbull, I think I have international love on there and thatโs about it. Yeah. Iโm not, yeah.
L. Scott Ferguson: So how can we find you,
Marc Mawhinney: Marc? Well, you go [00:28:00] north weโre next to Maine in the province of New Brunswick. No. Best spotโs got naturalborncoaches.
com. And you mentioned the Facebook group. We always love to have great people in there. Thatโs at thecoachingjungle. com, thecoachingjungle.
L. Scott Ferguson: com. Thecoachingjungle. Yeah, thatโs awesome. And then with, you are also giving away a, an issue of the Natural Born Coaches newsletter, correct? Yeah.
Marc Mawhinney: Yeah, well, secret Coach Club is what it called.
Iโm Secret Club. Yeah, no problem. So currently at the moment if you go to natural born coaches.com, youโll see the Opt-in the popup, and itโs the April, 2023 issue of Secret Coach Club. And in it, I outlined three questions that coaches have to answer if they want to be successful. And then I dive into each of those.
So itโll give people a taste if theyโre interested in Secret Coach Club, but theyโll get enough from that issue that they can take and put into action right
L. Scott Ferguson: away. And it, and itโs a very good investment for anybody thatโs out there. And for a lucky listener, I, myself it, that, that puts in [00:29:00] letโs see what we can put in here.
We can put it, just put in natural born coaches. I donโt care if itโs Pinterest, you tax it to me. Time to Shine today. Weโll pay for a year subscription to the Secret Coach Club for you. Okay, now you didnโt ask, so put that in there and make sure that, you let us know, and Iโll have that for the lucky listener for for Marc there.
And youโre going to have to be, please be a coach or a consultant or somebody thatโs out there really helping people level up. And
Marc Mawhinney: yeah, no, Iโm Jason. I appreciate
L. Scott Ferguson: that. Youโre welcome. Youโre very welcome. And itโs more than a pleasure. So Marc, give me one last solid and leave us with one last knowledge nugget.
We can take with us internalize and take action on.
Marc Mawhinney: Well, Iโm reading a new book. It was just released yesterday. Itโs around Fox News. Michael Wolff wrote it. So itโs kind of interesting. Iโm a fan of Succession. The TV series was great, so thatโs what this book, basically the Murdochs are a lot like Succession with with that family.
Thereโs something in there that Roger Ailes said when they were launching Fox News and he said, itโs not important enough for conservatives to love us. Liberals have to hate us. [00:30:00] Which I thought was really interesting because I think it can apply to life business. If you want to be a successful entrepreneur, if youโre in that mushy middle youโre not going to generate love, hate, the emotions that you need to really, so, so Iโm a really big fan.
You have the raving fans and then when you have the trolls, the people coming at you, the raving fans. We have fan haters. Yeah, thatโs right. And thatโs better. And so many coaches are lurking in the mushy middle there. And, and this doesnโt apply just to, I say, Fox news. You could flip it on the other side and say, MSNBC, CNN, stuff like that.
The half down the other side, hating them too, may not be really good for healthy discourse in society for the media. But I think for the coaching world, you really do need that. And Iโll leave you with one thing because we mentioned saddle earlier. I always remember a story with Ben. He was getting trolled on Twitter by a washed up hip hop artist.
I donโt know if you remember that. Yeah. So he Benโs now wife is Hispanic and he was, they were caught, he was calling Ben and his wife, a racist or KKK white [00:31:00] supremacist, which didnโt make a lot of sense when you think about it. Ben turned into a sale that weekend and he had the right supremacist sale w r i t e because of course heโs into email copywriting stuff like that and i think he made thirty thousand dollars he had to use this washed up hip hop guyโs name as a promo code or whatever yeah and he made thirty some thousand dollars and then he so heโs like i love it this is great from he took an attack and he turned it into he flipped the script yeah yeah he did and i thought it was it was brilliant with it so that ties into this whole thing that weโve been talking about Yeah,
L. Scott Ferguson: Roger Ailes, I believe you are the message is a mandatory read for, for people because it shows how heโs, , heโs the one that planted in Reagan when he went to Mondale and said, , that youโll take your inexperience, , itโs a, I mean, Ailes is a legend.
I mean, heโs got a bad rap. But he is a legend and Iโm a big
Marc Mawhinney: believer though. Like a lot of people would say, Oh, well, gee, Roger Ailes is an awful human. Yeah. He did this stuff with [00:32:00] treating employees women, bad stuff. Iโm not trying to excuse it. You can still learn from people that you donโt agree with.
So a lot of people hate Trump, but you could take the stuff, some stuff in there and learn from Trump or the flip side. Hillary Clinton, Obama, whatever. Iโve read books from all sides, but nowadays the issue is people will let their politics override their emotions. They get all emotional and they donโt learn from people that they could be learning from, unfortunately.
And I try to keep an open mind that way because you can learn from anyone, whether you like them. Personally or not, thereโs lessons to learn.
L. Scott Ferguson: Absolutely. And squad speaking of legends, I just spoke to one here and you just got to, to pick up some just serious, serious knowledge nuggets from my good buddy, Marc here, who, , real estate background really parlayed his skills from real estate right in, into coaching.
And as an entrepreneur, he reminded us that you need to recognize that you arenโt an entrepreneur. , a job is something that you do. A business is something that you grow. [00:33:00] Which I talked to my clients about that quite a bit. And just remember that because 80 percent of coaches out there, maybe even a little bit more, or even entrepreneurs for that matter, or entrepreneurs, thatโs a, thatโs what, , market said, and donโt discount yourself value, the knowledge in your noggin, thatโs what Marc.
I love that. Iโm going to steal it, Marc. And I absolutely love it. He wants you to bring your skills from whatever. vocation you have before coaching into your coaching because a lot of it is going to parlay right into it. And as a coach, consultant, therapist, whatnot, youโre there, honestly, to make money.
So itโs okay to let your clients know that what you have is valuable and that they should be compensating you. , youโre going to meet people, , youโll find that youโre a lot more successful out there squad when youโre breaking eggs to make omelets, people pleasers. Donโt always make it.
You have to have some haters. Donโt go out there looking for it. Be true, authentic to yourself, and the haters will just show up. If Marc reminded us, , fall seven times, get up eight. Because my [00:34:00] guy Marc here is planting trees heโs never going to sit in the shade of. , he does things for the intention, not the attention because Marc not out there.
Look at me. Heโs very successful, dude. I kind of know, but heโs not out there saying, look at me, look at me, look at me. You have that black box thinking something goes wrong. You feel like my favorite player of all time, Barry Sanders, he failed 40 gain the extra yard. Use that. They get better. Okay. And that being successful is living a life.
Of options not obligations, getting up and doing what you want when you want how you want And itโs absolutely awesome. If youโre looking to parlay into something like that, work your nine to five To pay your bills work your five to nine to to get your life going. All right squad and I had so much fun here Thank you so much Marc for coming on you level up your healthy level up your wealth Youโve earned your varsity squad letter here time to shine today.
Thank you so much, man Absolutely. Love your guts and I canโt wait to collaborate with you my friend. Yeah.
Marc Mawhinney: Thanks. Thanks for having me scott Appreciate
L. Scott Ferguson: you, brother. [00:35:00] Bye now.
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